Thursday, October 06, 2011
Thursday, November 05, 2009
Maybe i need to get one of these?
Well another day another when are you going to find someone question. Well ladies and gentlemen its like this most people have a hard time understanding that i don't play games, use masks and bother with the general business of working super hard beyond normal means to attract females. An easy explanation to this is to use fishing as an example. Men will have to get a good lure together (cash, car, clothes, etc.) toss it out there and then wiggle it around just right to get a nibble. If you do get a bite you have to reel in your catch which can take quite some time as the usual stuff gets in the way arguments, past boyfriends, ignorance, bad attitudes etc. Then you finally get your catch to the boat after the long and hard battle only to find out its not the fish you wanted. So you throw it back and start over. The deal with me is that i don't mind the battle or the reeling but that my lure is me, the real me. I'm not going to make myself out to be something I'm not just to get some girls. The clothes i wear are nice the car i drive.... no so nice yet.. YET... but what you see is what you get. If i go to the club or something i am dressed in something i would normally wear any other day. I don't have the "clubin gear" that most people have. I do like watches and silver but you wont find me decked out in all the time just to impress some girls i wear them because i want to. Most females cant deal with my hobbies either. I work on cars, i love cars, i build race cars, my job deals with cars, my mistress is my mustang. If you cant deal with me working or talking about cars then I'm not the one for you cause I'm not changing what i do just to impress someone. So i guess in short my lure just is not as sparkily or shiny as most other out there but for me its not what is on the outside its what is on the inside that shines. I keep it real all the time and that's just the way it is.
Love it or leave it ...
Monday, August 24, 2009
OK I was diagnosed with a major character flaw by 2 of my friends which I really appreciate it cause it gives me something to think about and reflect on. Do I have too much pride or am I too stuck up to compromise when it comes to women? My thoughts are you can compromise on looks because not everyone is a super model. You can compromise on money cause not everyone has Bill Gates cash. But the one thing you absolutely to me can not compromise on is personality and lifestyle. To me it seems that when you compromise on either personality or life style your selling your self short. Why settle for the argumentative nagging woman when you originally wanted a nice kind gentile woman. Sure sure shes got the looks you wanted, but when you come home in the evening and shes already warmed up and ready to let you have an ear full of what she thinks you did wrong, i don't think i would be too happy. Same thing goes for women too cause I'm not woman bashing. Ladies why settle for that Denzel Washington looking guy that beats you, talks down to you, and tries to belittle you at every chance he gets? Sure hes a knock out in bed and acts like a thug but is that what you really wanted? Why sell your self short and settle for just what you can get now. Is it that important to have a piece of arm candy or a warm body in bed? Cause if it is I'll buy a dog any day. My idea is when you settle for someone that its not really what you want over time there is the possibility that you could regret your decision. You could meet that special someone later on and then what..... now your stuck, you see you messed up, and end up wishing for something better. To me everyone deserves to be with someone that will make them happy and will be there for them through thick and thin. Yes there is a shortage of truly honest and caring people out there but if that is what you want don't settle for the here and now just cause its convenient or because your lonely. You deserve better than that get someone that's going to compliment and help uplift your relationship cause it takes the cooperation of both of you to make it work. Oh and I'm not hating if you want that thug don't settle go get one!
Thursday, July 09, 2009
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
A lot of my friends blogs talk about friends and how they love to have them around and believe me I'm right there with them. However have you ever had those friends that you never hear from unless something goes majorly wrong? Like for instance something breaks and they need help fixing it that's the only time you hear from them on the phone? I'm not the best at keeping up with friends on the phone but if I am called and they need help i usually am first to jump on it and help out. But i am beginning to wonder do you call those friends? If they were friends of yours wouldn't they at least pop you an email every so often to see if your still alive? If they saw you on Facebook or Myspace wouldn't they at least leave a comment every so often just to keep in touch? I do that a lot just to see if my friends both "Net friends" and real life friends are both doing OK. As much as I think about it on a daily basis i still find myself not able to leave a friend behind. If i have known you for a while and consider you a friend believe me when i say i got your back. But hey it doesn't hurt to check in from time to time when somethings not broken. So if you haven't heard from me in a while don't worry i usually work around to emailing but more than likely something won't be broken when i do.