Je ne comprend pas!!

Ok I know I said I had enough of commenting on the love and dating stuff, but man while listening to the radio I happened to hear some lunacy i’m confused about. Ok so while cruising in the test truck today I tune into a local radio show asking women how many men have they slept with. While I find this extremely fascinating I was stirred to anger when I heard a fact that seems to be so backwards that I just can’t comprehend the basis behind it, and I’m hoping that someone can explain it to me. So while discussing the topic of how many men these women have slept with, a few made the comment “Oh I don’t want a man who hasn’t slept with anyone, he needs some experience or something is wrong with him. I mean who wants to be his first one…” Whoa!!! Hold the phone! So if a man decided that he wants to keep himself for a wife that’s a negative thing in today’s world? And also in the past are you telling me you never had a first time? You just were already getting some before you were born or something?  Everyone has a first time and what if that one guy you decided to sleep with was like “I’m sorry [insert random name here] you need more experience before I can get down with you.” One lady said “I can’t be with a guy who has zero he has to at least have some experience.” Ok so if I was talking to you and wanted to take the relationship to the next level I would have to say “Hold on I don’t have any experience in bed let me bang this random girl over here so I know what i’m doing.” For some reason I don’t think too many girls would be cool with that. So apparently I was born in the wrong time wrong place or something because me personally there are too many diseases and such to pass around out there to simply couple up with everyone. Not only that what’s wrong with holding sex for if not your wife, someone you plan to spend your life or truly love? Not some spring fling you met at the club just because he buys you a drink you decide to knock some boots. But later in the show some ladies comment: “oh its ok to have a past sexual history as long as you either keep it secret or you know it’s a lower number than 10.” But apparently they want their man to forget about all the past ones but hell no they can’t forgive a man for having ZERO!! I just don’t understand the thinking behind all this I mean sure I could have gone out and gotten some from my past girlfriends but I had more respect for them than that. So since I don’t have any experience in the sack they think I won’t be as fun or what? That’s what I want to know ladies why are men who go out and bed the whole town ok, but the brother who doesn’t get any because he chooses to wait for that one special someone to share a bed with, nope he’s a looser. I know not everyone thinks like this but if you are a girl and you think having zero people you have slept with is a negative for a guy, can you please tell me why? I’m not knocking what your doing but man I'm just curious to know why.